AVOIDING
A BAD MARRIAGE
After salvation. The most
important choice you will need to make is who to marry. This choice is so
important that if you miss it, you will suffer for long, if you get it right
then you will enjoy forever. A bad marriage can affect every other area of your
life. This subject is so important. So many married people are hoping to be
single again so as to make the right choice. If you are single please don’t just
be in hurry to get married. You have the best opportunity to prepare for it.
For two people to come together to live in peace and harmony, they must agree
spiritually, mentally and physically. Just like an elephant cannot marry an ant
so also a believer cannot marry an unbeliever. If an elephant marries an ant
how would they live? If goat married fish where would they meet? You must look
for a godly man or a godly woman to marry, nothing can beat this. The devil’s
primary target is the family. He knows that everyone belongs to a family and if
he can make two wrong people meet then he has succeeded affecting the community
and nations negatively. Ignore your age and the pressure for a moment, the
pressure in a wrong marriage is far worse. God has somebody for you but you
must set your priorities right. What do you need in a woman? What do you need
in a man? Marriage is not about what you want, it is about who you need, and
that will make you better while you make him better. It is about destiny. That
is why you must know your purpose before you get married. (Genesis 2:18.) You
must pray before you choose. God know the best person for you. It is only wise
to seek His will. It is very easy to know God’s will when sex is not involved.
The moment sex is involved and you want to know His will then He will blank you
out. Why? Because you have broken His first law of NO SEX before marriage. If
you have had sex in the past then you need to repent totally and stay away from
each other for some time then you can seek the face of God. Your marriage will
not be hell on earth. Your marriage will be honorable in the name of God.
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Don’t marry for SEX
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Don’t marry because you are of age
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Don’t marry because you are getting old
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Don’t marry because you are lonely
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Don’t marry because you need someone to
support you financially
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Don’t marry because you mistakenly got pregnant
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Don’t marry because you don’t want to lose
the person
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Don’t marry because of family pressures.
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Don’t marry because you like the idea of
marriage and admire every wedding gown you see
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Don’t marry because all your friends are
getting married
BUT
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Get married because you want to fulfill
destiny.
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Get married because you want to be a help mate
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As a man, get married because you want to
fulfill your purpose.
God will help you in choosing, please let His will be
done.
Amen!
Please share to the youth out there you love, so too
avoid wrong decision. God bless you…
Still
at your service.. KemsidBlog
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