AVOIDING BAD MARRIAGE

<div class="MsoNormal"> <b><span style="font-family: "Arial","sans-serif"; font-size: 13.0pt; line-height: 115%;">AVOIDING A BAD MARRIAGE<o:p></o:p></span></b></div> <div class="MsoNormal"> <b><span style="font-family: "Arial","sans-serif"; font-size: 13.0pt; line-height: 115%;"><br /></span></b></div> <div class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: justify;"> <span style="font-family: "Arial","sans-serif"; font-size: 13.0pt; line-height: 115%;">After salvation. The most important choice you will need to make is who to marry. This choice is so important that if you miss it, you will suffer for long, if you get it right then you will enjoy forever. A bad marriage can affect every other area of your life. This subject is so important. So many married people are hoping to be single again so as to make the right choice. If you are single please don’t just be in hurry to get married. You have the best opportunity to prepare for it. For two people to come together to live in peace and harmony, they must agree spiritually, mentally and physically. Just like an elephant cannot marry an ant so also a believer cannot marry an unbeliever. If an elephant marries an ant how would they live? If goat married fish where would they meet? You must look for a godly man or a godly woman to marry, nothing can beat this. The devil’s primary target is the family. He knows that everyone belongs to a family and if he can make two wrong people meet then he has succeeded affecting the community and nations negatively. Ignore your age and the pressure for a moment, the pressure in a wrong marriage is far worse. God has somebody for you but you must set your priorities right. What do you need in a woman? What do you need in a man? Marriage is not about what you want, it is about who you need, and that will make you better while you make him better. It is about destiny. That is why you must know your purpose before you get married. (Genesis 2:18.) You must pray before you choose. God know the best person for you. It is only wise to seek His will. It is very easy to know God’s will when sex is not involved. The moment sex is involved and you want to know His will then He will blank you out. Why? Because you have broken His first law of NO SEX before marriage. If you have had sex in the past then you need to repent totally and stay away from each other for some time then you can seek the face of God. Your marriage will not be hell on earth. Your marriage will be honorable in the name of God.<o:p></o:p></span></div> <div class="MsoListParagraphCxSpFirst" style="margin-left: .25in; mso-add-space: auto; mso-list: l0 level1 lfo1; text-indent: -.25in;"> <!--[if !supportLists]--><span style="font-family: Symbol; font-size: 13.0pt; line-height: 115%; mso-bidi-font-family: Symbol; mso-fareast-font-family: Symbol;">·<span style="font-family: "Times New Roman"; font-size: 7pt; font-stretch: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; line-height: normal;">        </span></span><!--[endif]--><span style="font-family: "Arial","sans-serif"; font-size: 13.0pt; line-height: 115%;">Don’t marry for SEX<o:p></o:p></span></div> <div class="MsoListParagraphCxSpMiddle" style="margin-left: .25in; mso-add-space: auto; mso-list: l0 level1 lfo1; text-indent: -.25in;"> <!--[if !supportLists]--><span style="font-family: Symbol; font-size: 13.0pt; line-height: 115%; mso-bidi-font-family: Symbol; mso-fareast-font-family: Symbol;">·<span style="font-family: "Times New Roman"; font-size: 7pt; font-stretch: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; line-height: normal;">        </span></span><!--[endif]--><span style="font-family: "Arial","sans-serif"; font-size: 13.0pt; line-height: 115%;">Don’t marry because you are of age<o:p></o:p></span></div> <div class="MsoListParagraphCxSpMiddle" style="margin-left: .25in; mso-add-space: auto; mso-list: l0 level1 lfo1; text-indent: -.25in;"> <!--[if !supportLists]--><span style="font-family: Symbol; font-size: 13.0pt; line-height: 115%; mso-bidi-font-family: Symbol; mso-fareast-font-family: Symbol;">·<span style="font-family: "Times New Roman"; font-size: 7pt; font-stretch: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; line-height: normal;">        </span></span><!--[endif]--><span style="font-family: "Arial","sans-serif"; font-size: 13.0pt; line-height: 115%;">Don’t marry because you are getting old<o:p></o:p></span></div> <div class="MsoListParagraphCxSpMiddle" style="margin-left: .25in; mso-add-space: auto; mso-list: l0 level1 lfo1; text-indent: -.25in;"> <!--[if !supportLists]--><span style="font-family: Symbol; font-size: 13.0pt; line-height: 115%; mso-bidi-font-family: Symbol; mso-fareast-font-family: Symbol;">·<span style="font-family: "Times New Roman"; font-size: 7pt; font-stretch: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; line-height: normal;">        </span></span><!--[endif]--><span style="font-family: "Arial","sans-serif"; font-size: 13.0pt; line-height: 115%;">Don’t marry because you are lonely<o:p></o:p></span></div> <div class="MsoListParagraphCxSpMiddle" style="margin-left: .25in; mso-add-space: auto; mso-list: l0 level1 lfo1; text-indent: -.25in;"> <!--[if !supportLists]--><span style="font-family: Symbol; font-size: 13.0pt; line-height: 115%; mso-bidi-font-family: Symbol; mso-fareast-font-family: Symbol;">·<span style="font-family: "Times New Roman"; font-size: 7pt; font-stretch: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; line-height: normal;">        </span></span><!--[endif]--><span style="font-family: "Arial","sans-serif"; font-size: 13.0pt; line-height: 115%;">Don’t marry because you need someone to support you financially <o:p></o:p></span></div> <div class="MsoListParagraphCxSpMiddle" style="margin-left: .25in; mso-add-space: auto; mso-list: l0 level1 lfo1; text-indent: -.25in;"> <!--[if !supportLists]--><span style="font-family: Symbol; font-size: 13.0pt; line-height: 115%; mso-bidi-font-family: Symbol; mso-fareast-font-family: Symbol;">·<span style="font-family: "Times New Roman"; font-size: 7pt; font-stretch: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; line-height: normal;">        </span></span><!--[endif]--><span style="font-family: "Arial","sans-serif"; font-size: 13.0pt; line-height: 115%;">Don’t marry because you mistakenly got pregnant<o:p></o:p></span></div> <div class="MsoListParagraphCxSpMiddle" style="margin-left: .25in; mso-add-space: auto; mso-list: l0 level1 lfo1; text-indent: -.25in;"> <!--[if !supportLists]--><span style="font-family: Symbol; font-size: 13.0pt; line-height: 115%; mso-bidi-font-family: Symbol; mso-fareast-font-family: Symbol;">·<span style="font-family: "Times New Roman"; font-size: 7pt; font-stretch: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; line-height: normal;">        </span></span><!--[endif]--><span style="font-family: "Arial","sans-serif"; font-size: 13.0pt; line-height: 115%;">Don’t marry because you don’t want to lose the person<o:p></o:p></span></div> <div class="MsoListParagraphCxSpMiddle" style="margin-left: .25in; mso-add-space: auto; mso-list: l0 level1 lfo1; text-indent: -.25in;"> <!--[if !supportLists]--><span style="font-family: Symbol; font-size: 13.0pt; line-height: 115%; mso-bidi-font-family: Symbol; mso-fareast-font-family: Symbol;">·<span style="font-family: "Times New Roman"; font-size: 7pt; font-stretch: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; line-height: normal;">        </span></span><!--[endif]--><span style="font-family: "Arial","sans-serif"; font-size: 13.0pt; line-height: 115%;">Don’t marry because of family pressures. <o:p></o:p></span></div> <div class="MsoListParagraphCxSpMiddle" style="margin-left: .25in; mso-add-space: auto; mso-list: l0 level1 lfo1; text-indent: -.25in;"> <!--[if !supportLists]--><span style="font-family: Symbol; font-size: 13.0pt; line-height: 115%; mso-bidi-font-family: Symbol; mso-fareast-font-family: Symbol;">·<span style="font-family: "Times New Roman"; font-size: 7pt; font-stretch: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; line-height: normal;">        </span></span><!--[endif]--><span style="font-family: "Arial","sans-serif"; font-size: 13.0pt; line-height: 115%;">Don’t marry because you like the idea of marriage and admire every wedding gown you see<o:p></o:p></span></div> <div class="MsoListParagraphCxSpMiddle" style="margin-left: .25in; mso-add-space: auto; mso-list: l0 level1 lfo1; text-indent: -.25in;"> <!--[if !supportLists]--><span style="font-family: Symbol; font-size: 13.0pt; line-height: 115%; mso-bidi-font-family: Symbol; mso-fareast-font-family: Symbol;">·<span style="font-family: "Times New Roman"; font-size: 7pt; font-stretch: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; line-height: normal;">        </span></span><!--[endif]--><span style="font-family: "Arial","sans-serif"; font-size: 13.0pt; line-height: 115%;">Don’t marry because all your friends are getting married <o:p></o:p></span></div> <div class="MsoListParagraphCxSpMiddle" style="margin-left: .25in; mso-add-space: auto;"> <span style="font-family: "Arial","sans-serif"; font-size: 13.0pt; line-height: 115%;">BUT<o:p></o:p></span></div> <div class="MsoListParagraphCxSpMiddle" style="margin-left: .25in; mso-add-space: auto; mso-list: l0 level1 lfo1; text-indent: -.25in;"> <!--[if !supportLists]--><span style="font-family: Symbol; font-size: 13.0pt; line-height: 115%; mso-bidi-font-family: Symbol; mso-fareast-font-family: Symbol;">·<span style="font-family: "Times New Roman"; font-size: 7pt; font-stretch: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; line-height: normal;">        </span></span><!--[endif]--><span style="font-family: "Arial","sans-serif"; font-size: 13.0pt; line-height: 115%;">Get married because you want to fulfill destiny.<o:p></o:p></span></div> <div class="MsoListParagraphCxSpMiddle" style="margin-left: .25in; mso-add-space: auto; mso-list: l0 level1 lfo1; text-indent: -.25in;"> <!--[if !supportLists]--><span style="font-family: Symbol; font-size: 13.0pt; line-height: 115%; mso-bidi-font-family: Symbol; mso-fareast-font-family: Symbol;">·<span style="font-family: "Times New Roman"; font-size: 7pt; font-stretch: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; line-height: normal;">        </span></span><!--[endif]--><span style="font-family: "Arial","sans-serif"; font-size: 13.0pt; line-height: 115%;">Get married because you  want to be a help mate <o:p></o:p></span></div> <div class="MsoListParagraphCxSpLast" style="margin-left: .25in; mso-add-space: auto; mso-list: l0 level1 lfo1; text-indent: -.25in;"> <!--[if !supportLists]--><span style="font-family: Symbol; font-size: 13.0pt; line-height: 115%; mso-bidi-font-family: Symbol; mso-fareast-font-family: Symbol;">·<span style="font-family: "Times New Roman"; font-size: 7pt; font-stretch: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; line-height: normal;">        </span></span><!--[endif]--><span style="font-family: "Arial","sans-serif"; font-size: 13.0pt; line-height: 115%;">As a man, get married because you want to fulfill your purpose.<o:p></o:p></span></div> <div class="MsoNormal"> <span style="font-family: "Arial","sans-serif"; font-size: 13.0pt; line-height: 115%;">God will help you in choosing, please let His will be done.<o:p></o:p></span></div> <div class="MsoNormal"> <span style="font-family: "Arial","sans-serif"; font-size: 13.0pt; line-height: 115%;">Amen!<o:p></o:p></span></div> <div class="MsoNormal"> <span style="font-family: "Arial","sans-serif"; font-size: 13.0pt; line-height: 115%;">Please share to the youth out there you love, so too avoid wrong decision. God bless you…<o:p></o:p></span></div> <br /> <div class="MsoNormal"> <b><i><span style="font-family: "Arial","sans-serif"; font-size: 13.0pt; line-height: 115%;">Still at your service.. KemsidBlog<o:p></o:p></span></i></b></div>

AVOIDING BAD MARRIAGE

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